The white guys guide to dating black women polish dating cork
Whatever the reason, it doesn’t matter to me why you’re reading this article. I’m black, my man is white and we’ve been together for over six years.
I know a thing or two about partnering up with the white devil (hot take: they love it when you call them white devil.
But I say, be open to trying new things at least once. At family events his Mom, cousin, Aunt (pronounced “Ant” for some reason) etc may bust out a white version of a dish that your family makes and you know by the looks of it that it’s not going to taste the same as (read: as good as) your family’s. Will you be subjected to a lifetime of mediocre, under seasoned, undercooked, collard greens? Don’t make a stink eye about it if you don’t like it.
The first few meals may be akin to the dinner scene in Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom ( my personal fav of the Indiana Jones franchise) wherein Kate Capshaw gave the most incredible facial reactions of all time to crazy ass food like monkey brains and eyeball soup.
So by past I mean either, he’s never dated a black girl before and he knows nothing about us or he’s only dated black girls and is obsessed with us. If he’s a total newbie, I think it’s ok if he learns on the job.
My dude was a newbie which meant I got to train him to my own unique black girl specifications, it was fun.
Maybe you have a specific white dude already in mind and you want some insider tips on how to navigate the ebony/ivory road.
Here’s a tip though, offer to bring a side dish when you’re going to see his people.You shouldn’t show up empty-handed to someone’s house anyway — you know that.