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In one study, 72% of men had been on a date where the woman paid, and 76% of women daters footed the bill at least once also (Lottes, 1993).Then I asked my friends, “How long do men generally pay for dates if the relationship continues? A survey in 2014 shows 27% of Australians find it acceptable to split the bill when their dining companions have spent more than them.Going Dutch, splitting the bill or paying for the one dish you ordered happens a lot when I eat out with my Asian (and non-Asian) friends here.Paying for a meal, the typical Chinese person flaunts their privileged status, coming across as “looking good” and worthy. Whilst in Malaysia, once around Christmas my grandparents organised a banquet with a private room at a Chinese restaurant for twenty or so in the family.Naturally as the organisers, they had no qualms footing the bill.As the last dishes of sweet peanut soup and sesame balls were served, my mum walked out the door with a thick envelope. When my grandmother went to get the bill, my parents yelled in Cantonese, “Our treat!” Consequently, some of us of Asian heritage might fight for the bill because we fancy one-upmanship but more importantly, gifting.
If we’re the stereotypical Asian eating with other stereotypical Asians, coming out on tops to pay for a meal is often a big battle, sort of a sport in itself. When I was a kid living in Malaysia, we had countless family gatherings with extended relatives.
Getting the bill then is an act of love and sacrifice; money is often painstakingly earned, and so then is putting food on the table.
Different people are expected to pick up the dining tab during different occasions.
Sometimes it’s a pride and face thing that drives the stereotypical Asian to insist on picking up the dining tab.
Money is a marker of success along the traditional Chinese train of thought: the more one can afford to spend, the more one can impress.His guy doesn't even have enough money to pay the bills, so the only option he has to not get evicted is sell his pretty girlfriend to the landlord's inspector.